Nothing Will Loss, But You.

Child blackmailing is always dangerous. You lost to your child when you have no argument to deal with him. Any child is a precious asset, but our childish behaviour destroyed his mental, emotional and social growth. When parents reckon their child in such a way that he is enjoying such facilities which were not available to his parents in their childhood, deterioration starts with this sentence. Child started to build negativity in his mind, and one day parents lost him somewhere between you’re and you’ll be. Each child born with his destiny, perhaps he is more destined than you, so always appreciate him what he is enjoying. Never incorporate your feeling of deprivation in your next generation. You have thoughts and ideas of your own time, which can be practical and factual for you. Your child can ingest the more advanced concepts which are not digestible by you. It does not mean that you are right, and they are wrong. Your social fact is different than there’s and never try to make it brute fact at all. It will be a loss- loss situation for you. In each case, you will lose your child. Just imagine your child is a gem and legend of his own time. Discuss with them their concepts about the world and don’t try to mould their purified ideas. It’s not their fault that you are a confused person of confused generation. However, it would be your fault if your child represents a disordered or dual personality. A good parent is always a good psychologist. Emotional blackmailing shows your failure to tackle your child. You lost the day when you scold your child instead of answering his quest. Try, this day may never come in your life. Lastly, never provide the same lens to your child, which his grandfather chose for his father. Give them the freedom to choose his career, lifestyle, partner, standard, friends and philosophy of life. Discuss with them, argue with them and lead them to the path of positivity. Never impose your decision on them. Otherwise, nothing will lose, but you. #Tirmazi